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The Matriarch of Hamiltonia returns. What God has joined together let no man separate.

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0:00Darkness is not an affirmative force.
0:03It simply reoccupies the space vacated by the light.
0:07This is the Hamilton Corner on American Family Radio.
0:11It should be uncomfortable for a believer to live as a hypocrite.
0:15Delivery people out of the bondage of mainstream media.
0:18And the philosophies of this world.
0:20God has called you and me to be His ambassador.
0:24Even in this dark moment.
0:26Let's not miss our moment.
0:29And now, the Hamilton Corner.
0:31Good evening, everyone.
0:34Welcome to the Hamilton Corner here on American Family Radio.
0:38I'm your host, Abraham Hamilton III,
0:40joined by the corner contingent right across from me,
0:43our friendly neighborhood, Woodaholic.
0:45Still sappin' tall stacks.
0:49Pun intended, you get that?
0:50Sappin' tall stacks.
0:54With a single chainsaw.
0:56Ha ha ha ha.
0:58Mr. Marty Sparks, ladies and gentlemen,
0:59is behind the board.
1:01once again and in a screening room produced extraordinary often imitated never duplicated the real j
1:06mac is in studio and we're ready to rock and roll with today's edition of the program at this very
1:12moment many of you if not most of you are making your transition from your part time jobs where you
1:17generate an income to your full time jobs where you cultivate an outcome and as you do so i want to
1:23remind you to do so with intentionality understanding the primacy that god places on family allowing
1:32his view to govern our engagement while we are still in the middle of a government shutdown
1:40and all kinds of things are going on.
1:43Certainly, my heart goes out to those federal employees who are trying to proceed without pay.
1:50You know, there are some critical services that are still continuing, but there are some federal
1:55employees who are navigating the shutdown.
1:57Now, they will be paid whenever the government reopens their back pay.
2:01but it's kind of challenging to do so in the meantime.
2:07And I pray that the eyes of the people in our country
2:09will open sufficiently to help us to see
2:14the insanity of what's happening.
2:15I've explained before,
2:16this is nothing more than an effort
2:18to expand Obamacare subsidies as a primary measure
2:23and to make those enhanced subsidies permanent,
2:26including funding, healthcare insurance coverage
2:30illegal aliens through federal taxpayer dollars. It's saying, while those things are very, very,
2:37very important, they're not more important for how we conduct ourselves in our homes.
2:42What goes on in your house is more important than what goes on in the White House. What goes
2:46on in your house is more important than what's going on in the Capitol Hill because we are directly
2:50responsible for what we do with the time and the space that God has given us. And we will never
2:57be able to out politic or outvote deficiencies that abound in the home, the fundamental building
3:04block of every society is the family. The fundamental building block of the church is the family.
3:13We must welcome the Lord to transform us in our homes as a matter of first priority.
3:21I was talking to a brother this week, you know, who's a youth pastor and we were having a conversation
3:32about the fact that there's no way you can pastor away parental neglect. You can't care
3:41care about the children. Well, of course, you can, but your care for the children is not
3:46going to undo what does or does not happen at home. That is just the truth. It's just the
3:52truth. And if we are going to be a great nation, enduringly, the greatness of our nation will
3:59be determined about what goes on inside of our home. So as you're making your transition,
4:04guys, you we, I'm saying we because I'm included in this too, we have to make that transition
4:12with intentionality, we have to resolve it in our hearts, that disciple making is not just
4:16a wonderful platitude, it's not just a nice saying to put on, you know, a Hobby Lobby purchased
4:22coffee mug.
4:23Jeez.
4:25But it's something that we commit our lives to because we understand the value of being redeemed
4:31by the blood of the Lamb.
4:33To the word of God we go, Matthew chapter 19, this is going to really undergird the entirety
4:43of our conversation during the program today. In Matthew 19, Jesus is being questioned about
4:51marriage and he responds by referring both to Genesis chapters 1 and 2 as authoritative and
4:59applicable to the question. As he answers the question, he roots the answer in the creation
5:08account. In Matthew 19, Pharisees were questioned in Jesus and he answers them in verse 4, Matthew 19,
5:16for and he answered and said, have you not read that he who created them from the beginning
5:23made them male and female.
5:27That's from Genesis 1 27, y'all and said, for this reason, shall a man leave his father
5:32and mother and be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh.
5:37So they are no longer to.
5:40So they are no longer to, but what, but one flesh.
5:46But therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
5:56I know President Trump's campaign moniker and movement was MAGA, make America great again,
6:00but I have to tell you marriage needs to be made great.
6:06There's a push even amongst Republicans for things like IVF, you know, in vitro fertilization.
6:11We have lots of people that say, yes, we need more babies, we need more children.
6:15Can I tell you something?
6:16We need more families.
6:19If we have more babies that are produced, but these babies are being intentionally deprived
6:24of a father or mother intentionally deprived from an environment where the child is being
6:29reared in a secured context where they have the security that their father is married to
6:35their mother and committed to their mother for life and that the married father and mother
6:39are committed to rearing that child in the nurturing admonition of the Lord, we are falling
6:45short of what God calls us to.
6:50If we are going to have a consistent ethos as it applies to the sanctity of human life,
6:56we have to understand it is not a pro-life disposition to create life for the intentional
7:01purposes of destroying life.
7:05I understand in my heart breaks for the reality that we live in the fallen world.
7:09I understand that we have people who we love dearly, who have challenges in reproduction,
7:15But the answer is not to celebrate one life that's born when we've intentionally frozen
7:21and destroyed hundreds or thousands in the process, which is why, and you guys know I
7:30support President Trump generally, but frankly, he's wrong on IVF because what we need are
7:40strong families.
7:41And if we continue to allow ourselves, you know, I brought this up with when Elon Musk
7:49and he's having these children.
7:51And I just asked the question, where are these children's mothers?
7:54And is Elon Musk committed to their mothers?
7:56Of course, you know, you can't be committed to multiple baby mamas.
8:01And they say, hey, Elon Musk got baby mamas.
8:05Yes.
8:06Yes.
8:09And it shows one of the unraveling is like a thread on a on a on a on a on a rug where you
8:17have a thread that is unraveling.
8:21And it shows, this is not a secure tapestry.
8:30It's a threat that reveals the lack of thorough consideration and biblical grounding for our
8:37societal engagement.
8:39If we have people that are saying creating infants through IVF or the express purposes
8:43of destroying them is a pro-life disposition.
8:47Now we've talked with our sisters Kendra and concerning, you know, the way IVF developed
8:56natural psychoivis, things of that nature, but because, and the reality is follow the money
9:05because it's not the most monetarily profitable mechanism, but it is the most God honoring
9:10and biblical affirming to refuse to create life to destroy it, it goes back to the question,
9:17would you do we truly believe that life begins a conception?
9:25Now, this goes to what I'm explaining to you about marriage
9:32and this, you know, gets people upset sometimes.
9:40But the truth is the Bible affirms that marriage
9:43is one man committed to one woman for life.
9:48That's what the Bible affirms.
9:50You know, I've seen people try to say,
9:52well, what about these examples and scriptures
9:54and say, guys, you have to understand
9:55that there are things in the Bible that the Bible is describing.
9:58The Lord isn't recommending it, he's not commanding it.
10:01The Lord's not saying, look, look at Solomon's marital history.
10:04Go and do likewise.
10:06No, that's not what the Lord's saying at all.
10:07In fact, every time you see a violation of God's definition
10:13for marriage is always utterly problematic.
10:16There's a difference between what is described in scripture
10:18and what is prescribed, what God requires of us.
10:22There are lots of things that are in scripture
10:24to the Lord of saying, that is horrible.
10:27You know, for example, in Genesis,
10:30I'm sorry, Judges chapter 19.
10:34We know a lot about Sodom and Gomorrah,
10:35but do you realize the same thing happened in Israel?
10:37The Lord is not saying, hey, why don't you go
10:39and do the same?
10:41When the Levite comes in town, surround his house
10:43and abuses Kanki by, and until she dies.
10:47That's, that's, and honestly, it is,
10:50it is a, it is an adjuvinal conflation.
10:56any objective person who's reading the scripture,
11:01they know God is not saying that's what you should go and do,
11:05but it's a juvenile attempt to distance oneself
11:09from the authority of scripture,
11:11what you know is prescriptive.
11:16I've explained this before, the reason why I pointed out
11:19that Jesus quotes from both Genesis one and Genesis two,
11:23because anybody who would try to say that the scripture
11:25has contradictory accounts of creation
11:28in the beginning of the Bible, there's just flat wrong.
11:30Genesis chapter one,
11:33illustrates the six days of creation
11:35and an observational reference to the seventh day of rest.
11:38Genesis two is an up close examination of the sixth day.
11:42They're not contradictory.
11:43They're complimentary accounts of scripture,
11:46which is why when Jesus answers the question,
11:50he roots concerning marriage,
11:51he roots that answer in creation.
11:53And he specifically quotes from Genesis one
11:55and Genesis two to answer the question.
11:58Contrary to modern protestations, the Bible is absolutely clear.
12:02Because when the Bible says,
12:03for this call,
12:04a man leave his father and mother,
12:06even though God knows very well
12:07that Adam and Eve have no natural biological parental ancestry,
12:12the Lord says that the perspective candidate
12:14for marriage and the potential husband,
12:16the future husband,
12:17is derived from a parental unit called a father and mother.
12:22The same is true for the prospective wife.
12:24She derives from a parental unit
12:26that consists of a father and mother.
12:28simply put life and progeny requires fathers and mothers.
12:36If that is not explanation enough,
12:37the scripture is explicitly clear.
12:39When it says for this,
12:40when it says for this cause shall a man leave his father
12:42and mother and be joined to his wife,
12:45the Greek word for man, literally means a mature adult male,
12:51the scripture then says and be joined to his wife.
12:55The Greek term there is goonay,
12:57which forms the root word for a particular medical discipline
13:01in English called gynecology,
13:04that in order for one to need a gynecologist,
13:07there is a specific type of plumbing
13:12that a gynecologist would serve.
13:18Simply put, the Lord is affirming that marriage consists
13:21of a man and a woman to this exclusion
13:24of any derivations or deviations from that phenomenon.
13:29If we are going to have a society that thrives,
13:37there is no such thing as thriving
13:40if we rebel against what God has ordained.
13:46It's no such thing.
13:48And I don't say what I'm saying about IVF
13:50and things of that nature from a position of callousness,
13:53not in the least bit.
13:58But if we're going to be people who believe
14:02in the sanctity of human life,
14:03we have to have a consistency about ourselves.
14:08And I'll remind you what I said yesterday,
14:10the scripture teaches us that the Lord has ordained his church
14:14to be the pillar and ground of truth.
14:17we should serve as a means of conscious for our society,
14:25because the world is going to world.
14:28I referred to John Adams's quote yet quote yesterday,
14:33that Americans,
14:34un with passions unbridled by biblical fidelity
14:41and biblical morality will cast off our form of government
14:46for something else,
14:48because this experiment itself government
14:50is really only has efficacy for the self-governed.
15:00A discipleship minute with Joseph Parker.
15:04Lord, thank you for every parent listening right now.
15:07Anoint every dad, every mom.
15:09Anoint every granddad, every grandmom with the wisdom
15:12to know that there's so much we can do
15:15to bless and encourage and minister to our children
15:18as we have them to read the word of God out loud daily,
15:20but also as we teach and train them
15:23With the wisdom that draws straight from your word.
15:27Help us to be wise enough to turn off all the electronic gadgets
15:30and all the things, the cell phones and everything else.
15:33And help us to be wise enough to open your word
15:36with our children and allow them to read the word
15:40and talk about the wisdom and the counsel,
15:42the grace that's found there,
15:44that they can learn to walk in the light of the wisdom
15:47and the power of your word.
15:49There's nothing our children need
15:51more than your precious power forward.
15:54In Jesus' name we do pray, amen.
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17:00Shining light into the darkness.
17:07This is the Hamilton Corner on American Family Radio.
17:11Welcome back to the Hamilton Corner, Abraham Hamilton the third here and I have in studio
17:18with me my favorite guest of all time.
17:20Because I needed some help and some reinforcements to deal with some foolishness. I wouldn't necessarily say do your
17:27but I saw this and I
17:31Was greatly disturbed by it. So I said it to my wife
17:35I said babe, what do you think about this and we had a
17:40spirited banter over the matter and
17:43So I wanted to bring some of that conversation to you and I hope and pray that it's edifying to you
17:48you because you can file this under just because someone may be popular doesn't mean that they
17:54are wise. In popularity, of course, it's a subjective term. You could let me edit my
18:02file name just because someone may be relatively popular doesn't mean that they are wise. So
18:09let me first introduce my guest properly. My guest is none other than the mother of our
18:15six children, my wife, most importantly a passionate and committed Christ follower,
18:23who the Lord blessed me to meet in the wake of one of the most devastating events in our nation's
18:33history that is Hurricane Katrina, out of the ashes of a ninth ward citizen being thrust west
18:41to Houston, Texas, to Lord, allow me to meet one Maria Hamilton.
18:45Thank you for joining me here in studio.
18:49Thank you for having me babe.
18:50It is my pleasure.
18:52I was just thinking just now how after we got married, your boss was trying to say, is he
18:56ruining your life?
18:58Yep.
18:59You're destroying my life, destroying his life.
19:02Well this is to bring out the audience here into our conversation.
19:05What I'm about to play, I'm going to play the clip for you.
19:11I'm talking about, yeah, I think you probably won't listen to it again.
19:16So Aisha Curry, man.
19:17Aisha Curry is the wife of Steph Curry.
19:21Steph Curry is the Hall of Fame, soon to be Hall of Fame point guard for the Golden State
19:27Warriors, the basketball player, both of them, Professor B. Christians, by the way.
19:32Steph Curry literally changed the game of basketball by shooting three pointers from half court
19:38I didn't start a playing yet.
19:39But I don't hear you.
19:40Oh, it's fine.
19:41I don't need to.
19:43Yeah.
19:44Change the game of basketball certainly is going to go down in Hall of Fame to some people use a top 10 top 5 player
19:51You I don't you know I won't give you my ranks. I
19:55Wouldn't probably put him in the top 5 though, but no doubt about it. He changed the game forever
20:02She appeared on the podcast and
20:06the first
20:07It bothered me first of all that she's on this podcast
20:10I, I, the podcast is a podcast for filth, other filth. That's, that's what they do on. That's
20:18what they do in this podcast. The host is Alex Cooper. It's also not surprisingly one of the
20:24few podcasts that she should ever be president. The remix went on during her run for the presidency
20:29in 2024, although she couldn't be bothered to travel. So she paid over a million dollars
20:35was to remake a Washington DC hotel room
20:37to look like Alex Cooper's podcast set.
20:41They're serious.
20:44So see that that's the first thing to grab my attention.
20:46I saw it come across my feet.
20:48I was like, why is it he should curry talk to this woman?
20:51And when I say filth, I wanna be very specific.
20:55Sexual degeneracy stuff.
20:58Discussed by women.
20:59That's the whole thing.
21:00That's what it's about.
21:02And I remember thinking I would not want my wife showing up
21:05on the podcast with this woman.
21:06before I heard anything they had to say.
21:08I'm like, why the hell am I in the podcast?
21:10But I wanted to be gracious.
21:11Why would she be on that podcast?
21:12I wanted to be gracious and say, well, maybe,
21:16maybe she'll do something redemptive and I was disappointed.
21:23Yes, yes, Sister Pamela, it's a worldly, wicked, nasty podcast,
21:29is what it is.
21:30The portion, the clip I'm gonna show you though,
21:33you gonna know why I'm sharing it with you.
21:35So during the course of this conversation,
21:39Asha Curry begins to discuss her dissatisfaction
21:44with her life, with this woman on this podcast,
21:49and I was like, why is she saying these things to this lady?
21:53But let me stop talking about it.
21:55Let me let you watch and hear what Asha Curry said
22:00from our own mouth,
22:01I'm gonna resist my temptation, Jeff and Marty,
22:03to interrupt her right now.
22:05I'm gonna let her get all of this tripe out.
22:09And then Mrs. Hamilton and I will begin discussing it.
22:13Listen to and watch clip number two, clip two, go.
22:17I didn't want kids.
22:19I didn't want to get married.
22:22I thought I was going to be career girl and that's it.
22:27And I had my eyes set on my goals.
22:30And I was never the little girl that like dreamt
22:33about the wedding dress and all of that.
22:35And then it happened so early in my life.
22:38Did you talk to Steph about it?
22:43He tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.
22:51And he also comes from a place of like,
22:53it's stupid, like, wait, it's not true, it's the way.
22:58And I'm like, but wait, like, listen to how it makes me feel.
23:02And he's like, but why does it make you feel like
23:05that it's not real?
23:07After we got married, we found out we were pregnant
23:09with our daughters so quickly,
23:14I didn't even have time to think about
23:17what I wanted anymore.
23:18It's so interesting, I spent my entire life
23:21like trying to work towards something
23:23and then it kind of just disappeared
23:25and I didn't think twice about it.
23:29But after my daughter turned one,
23:33I remember there being a shift and being like,
23:37I have goals for myself.
23:39Like this doesn't feel right.
23:40I love being a mom, but I love doing other things too.
23:44And I need to get my sh** together
23:46and figure out what that looks like for myself now.
23:50If I have a career and I'm not home,
23:51like did you experience that?
23:53I still experience that.
23:55I still experience that.
23:56I'm almost like, I'm always in therapy talking about this.
24:02If you lose all of those things
24:04that were interesting about you, even for yourself,
24:09like even the things that made me feel confident and cool,
24:12then what, like, what are you doing?
24:22I'll say before I get to the Mrs. I passed this
24:25by Mr. McIntosh as well, and he had some choice words
24:30to share about this.
24:33Now now y'all can tell, now you know why I invited my wife
24:36to join me to discuss this.
24:42Maria Hamilton the first, when you hear that,
24:45what is your reaction?
24:48You know, first let me say that I heard a portion of that clip before you sent this clip to me.
24:55And I was like, man, maybe I need to hear the whole interview.
24:58Maybe there's more to this.
24:59You know, I want to, and even still, you know, maybe there's something that, you know, takes
25:04thin grace because my heart really wants to extend grace.
25:06And I will, I will.
25:07But I was like, maybe there's something there that I'm not hearing.
25:10And then I heard the longer clip that you just played.
25:12And I was like, oh man, she's saying what I was worried that she was actually saying.
25:16So, but honestly, my first reaction and my reaction today still is, my heart hurts for
25:22her.
25:23I agree for her because you know how the Bible, when we talk about this all the time, you know
25:26how the Bible says that there are those who are deceiving and being deceived.
25:31And so I believe she is deceived and she is deceiving in her portrayal of it.
25:36Now let me be clear on something, right?
25:38So we, both you and I, because you know, you and I are one, we agree that wives have
25:45skills and talents, passions, desires, you know, callings, that God has placed in the wife.
25:54That is real, and there is no denial there. To think of those gifts and talents and desires and
26:01passions and callings and like missions in life, great things that are burning within us as wives.
26:08To think of those as removed from the equation when you become a mother,
26:13that is the deception of the devil, right?
26:17And so I feel like she with all the therapy
26:20that she's going to and all that,
26:23she lacks a biblical worldview of womanhood and motherhood.
26:27And that's why I agree for her.
26:28Now she's going on this podcast and,
26:30and you know, the filth that comes through that there,
26:33she does not have someone in her corner
26:36that will help her see what a woman is,
26:38according to God's design,
26:40and how she is to fulfill her role in her marriage
26:45as a woman, a wife, and a mother.
26:47She doesn't see it, she doesn't understand it,
26:48which is why she embracing the world's understanding
26:52of it's either or, or not even either or.
26:54It's like you either do what you love
26:58or you do what you don't love,
27:00which is raising children, right?
27:02And that is so demonic.
27:04It's so demonic, it's demonic and it's deceptive
27:07and it's robbing her of fruitfulness in the kingdom
27:11is robbing Steph, a fruitfulness in the kingdom
27:13and is robbing their children.
27:14And that is the thing that agrees me,
27:15but of course, as you said earlier,
27:17and I almost showed up in a minute,
27:18you have these two people who claim to be believers
27:22because I can do all things, right?
27:23I can do all things on the tennis shoe.
27:26But-
27:26That's what the scripture that Steph refers to that scripture
27:29on his tennis shoe, he has the scripture of reference.
27:33And it's wonderful, but-
27:35Well, it's not in context though.
27:36Right, that's what I was gonna say next.
27:38So first, it has to be in context.
27:39second of all, we have to understand who these people are.
27:42And with all the love and respect that I have within me,
27:46they are immature believers based on what they have displayed
27:50in public.
27:51And so we have to extend grace
27:53because they don't know what they don't know,
27:54but they have a following and an influence.
27:57And then you have those that are coming before them
27:59or after them, I should say, that are looking up to them
28:03and they're looking up to her as this beautiful wife
28:06of this professional basketball player
28:09and all the lights and the glamour,
28:11and she's spewing deception.
28:14She's embracing deception and spewing it
28:16through this platform.
28:18And so I'm just very grieved.
28:19I'm very grieved there's so much to say about her blindness
28:23because she could be much more fruitful than she's being,
28:27but she's being deceived.
28:28So.
28:29Man, as you probably know, I have so many thoughts.
28:33The first one I alluded to, what caused her
28:41to be attracted to go onto that podcast?
28:45Flesh.
28:46Sure, but.
28:49If she, if I'm sorry, can I just say this one thing?
28:51If she already is deceived into thinking
28:55that working girl, you know, power boss lady perspective,
29:00that's what she is abandoning
29:02because she got married young and is having children now,
29:05then of course she wants to go on a platform.
29:07I mean, that's gonna be surprising.
29:08That's a platform that is advancing these aspects
29:12of womanhood, if you will, in quotes,
29:15because that's fallenness, that's flesh,
29:18but that's what's attractive,
29:19because look what she's wrestling with in her heart,
29:21and I say wrestling to get into grace,
29:23but that's what she is dealing with.
29:26So of course you'll go on a platform like that,
29:28you know what I mean?
29:28She is talking as if someone forced her to marry
29:32and to have children, as if she had no say so.
29:36And as she has a dog-grade.
29:37Yeah, I'm gonna say she's speaking as if she was compelled
29:41to marry and to have children.
29:44And it seems to some degree,
29:48and I don't wanna try to get into her mind,
29:51but she seems to some degree at some level,
29:54at some point to be expressing regret for that.
29:58And can I just add this one part that really hit me hard?
30:01The way that she expresses himself about Steph
30:04and about her husband, about how he doesn't understand
30:08and he tries, but he doesn't get it.
30:11Man, it's so much, but as wives, especially publicly,
30:16in private, you shouldn't have that in your heart,
30:18but publicly to expose your husband
30:26to public criticism in an area that he is not,
30:30quote unquote, meeting you or understanding you
30:33covering you, especially for Christians, we should understand that, is extremely detrimental
30:39to her marriage.
30:41Because what you're doing, especially Steph Curry, who everybody knows, and everybody quote-unquote
30:45loves because he's like, based on what I understand, like the good boy of like the NBA, I don't
30:50know, he's married and has been married and has the kids and whatever.
30:52And has like a positive, you know, persona, if you will publicly.
30:58He now is seen very publicly as the husband that doesn't get it.
31:04And really to the point where if you really go there because the flesh will go there, sinful
31:08people will go there, they'll say he just has her at home barefoot and naked and naked.
31:12Lord, barefoot and pregnant.
31:14Sorry, you're barefoot and pregnant.
31:17And it's just there.
31:18And so like he's doing this to her.
31:20That's what they'll say.
31:21That's how far she didn't mean to say it that way.
31:23But he will.
31:24I don't think he she would mean for him to be exposing that way, but but she's doing it
31:29I don't think that she would she meant for people to come back and say oh that's it's all steps fault
31:33She doesn't mean for that to be the result
31:35But that will be because of people who listen to that type of garbage in that on that platform
31:39Yeah, I just because this is not the first time
31:42Jeff, you know this this is not the first time
31:45Ayesha Curry has said unflattering things about her husband and public. Yeah, that's very sad and so I I
31:51I wonder at this juncture.
31:55I mean, once or twice, okay,
31:57I wonder at this juncture if she's unaware
32:01of how her comments in this regard could be,
32:09or actually are demeaning to her husband
32:12and undermining of her union.
32:13Yeah, yeah.
32:14You know, I always use this word picture,
32:16which I use it a lot,
32:18so I mean, I need to find another one.
32:19But I always picture a ship, you know,
32:22and we're traveling both in a year,
32:23you and I are on this ship together.
32:25God called us to it, God, we have a mission.
32:27And I can very easily in my flesh poke holes in this ship,
32:32thinking you're sinking or thinking,
32:35like the enemy, whatever, the opposing perspective is sinking,
32:38but when I'm sinking myself.
32:40And so we are destroying, you can do that on your end
32:42and I can do that in mind, destroying this very ship
32:45that God has placed us in to accomplish his mission.
32:47And so she's doing that, or she did some of that
32:50in that interview against her marriage.
32:53And so it just grieves me, man.
32:55She has an incomplete understanding of motherhood.
32:57She doesn't understand the great value
33:00that God places on motherhood.
33:02And so she thinks little of it.
33:03And it's very sad.
33:06I've been nice so far,
33:09but I think I need to go in a little deeper.
33:11Because one of the major takeaways,
33:15it seemed to me from this clip,
33:18it's almost as if she regrets getting married.
33:21How can you have a level of regret for a regret
33:27of being married yet persevere in oneness?
33:33Yeah.
33:34As a union, going forward, I wanna get into that.
33:36I mean, she said, I'm constantly in therapy.
33:39I have goals for myself.
33:41If you lose all the things that were interesting about you,
33:45it seems she's attempting to carve out a non-married
33:50non-married disposition while being married.
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36:10EFR.net back to the Hamilton Corner on American Family Radio.
36:16Welcome back to the Hamilton Corner, Abraham Hamilton the third here along with
36:20my lovely wife, Maria Hamilton, and we're just discussing the latest
36:24broadside, I would say that Aisha, Aisha Curry offered publicly against her husband Steph Curry.
36:29And it is greatly concerning for a host of reasons. One of the main reasons why I wanted to talk about
36:33this is because we have a significant contingent of younger people who listen to this show. And I
36:38want you to know that what she said is a flat lie, guys. It's a flat lie. It is a comment that
36:44flows from someone who has been captured by the critical theorist's creed in the feminist iteration.
36:53She's deceived by it.
36:54Well, you can literally, it's the type of deception
36:57that can have, watch this.
36:59I did I say watch this all up?
37:00It's the type of deception that can have a person
37:03who is literally in paradise,
37:05who has unfettered access to everything except one tree.
37:09Yeah. And the entire focus of their life is,
37:12oh, but I need that tree.
37:14To the point where you need therapy.
37:15To the point where you need therapy
37:16because you don't have the tree.
37:17Where you are multi-millionaire,
37:20who literally can do whatever she wants to do. But she sees herself as being deprived of life.
37:29She said, I have goals for myself. One of the major things, and you know we talk about this,
37:35when we have the privilege of counseling couples preparing for marriage,
37:38why is there a consistent press for goals that she feels that have to be foreign
37:48to her union to her husband.
37:49Yeah, I don't understand.
37:50That is a divisive, really divorce inducing, if you will, mentality.
37:58That is a, I live separately from you.
38:02And my goals, my dreams, my passions, my calling,
38:05has nothing to do with you.
38:06And I am being robbed of being able to implement those
38:10because I married you.
38:11And it's like, whoa, where does that come from?
38:13That's not biblical, that's not from God.
38:15That's not the way God made us to be united as one.
38:19Yeah.
38:20It's really sad.
38:21She said she's always in therapy.
38:23She's always in therapy.
38:24And she said, quote, if you lose all of those things that were past tense, that word interesting
38:31about you.
38:33Oh, baby, you feel like you've lost the things that are interesting about you.
38:38I have no interesting things about me anymore.
38:41Oh my gosh.
38:42No, that is so I'm saying again, grieved.
38:45What interesting about you?
38:48Like, why do you lose yourself?
38:50Like, why have you embraced this mentality
38:53that you lose yourself when you become married
38:56and have children?
38:57Why are you embracing the idea that who you are
39:01is no longer who you are,
39:02because now what you're changing a diaper
39:04or like what do you see yourself doing?
39:06Why is that so small?
39:08Why is it that we're not training the minds
39:09and hearts of our children to succeed in this life?
39:12Why are we not seeing that once upon a time we were raised
39:14And we need to raise the next generation of strong believers
39:17if we're Christians, but at best, you know,
39:20and humanism to be good people.
39:23So why are we just not, why are we thinking that none
39:27of that is interesting anymore?
39:28And, but the lie is, the lie is that we are only valuable.
39:32That's the thing about feminism is so demonic.
39:34We only contribute any value to either our marriages
39:38or any institutions in society.
39:41If we bring in money, notoriety, fame, accolades of men.
39:46If we don't bring quote unquote any of that,
39:47then we have no value.
39:49See, we're only cooking and cleaning at home.
39:51And that is the lie that we need to reject
39:53as Christian women.
39:54That is such a lie.
39:56We literally are who God made us to be
39:58before marriage and post-marriage.
40:00God gave us a calling and a mandate and an instruction
40:03and passions and desires and things to fulfill
40:05before we were married.
40:06And we bring that into the marriage.
40:07And guess what?
40:08Our husbands come lead us in that,
40:11and our giftands and our talents mesh with yours,
40:14in my case with yours, babe.
40:16And we have a mission and a calling to accomplish.
40:18We have one goal, and that is to glorify God ourselves,
40:24and to raise the next generation of believers
40:25that are gonna glorify God in their lives.
40:27Yes, the mission and vision for our family is ours.
40:30It's not unilaterally mine or unilaterally yours.
40:34Right, how is that uninteresting?
40:35Yeah.
40:36And one of the things that also just leapt from this is you have a professing believer
40:43putting aside her uses of profanity on this profane podcast, but who seems to reject a
40:50biblical view of herself and her life station because he even said that if you lose the things
40:56that made me feel confident, I lose the things that made me feel cool and I'm talking about
41:03it in therapy all the time.
41:06This type of presentation cuts against what we read in Matthew 19 for what God has joined
41:13together.
41:14Let no man separate, not even the people that are involved.
41:17Guys, this is why it's vitally important to not be here as only of God's word, but to
41:22be doers of God's word because marital oneness must be intentionally pursued and protected.
41:31One of the things that you know this that I've committed myself to is never disparaging
41:35you publicly.
41:36Yeah.
41:37Never.
41:38One of the things you've committed to is doing the exact same thing because our union is
41:41worth being fortified and worth protecting.
41:44How do comments like this in your estimation, you already gave the metaphor, the illusion,
41:49the word picture of the holes in the ship, but how does this type of commentary undermine
41:53the notion of oneness and marriage?
41:54Yeah.
41:55So first of all, we have to hope that they understand what marriage is and hope that they understand
42:00that marriage is an illustration of Christ and his bride,
42:03and that it is for husbands and wives to become one.
42:07And she's working against that, first by saying that she
42:12has lost a portion of herself by being joined to him,
42:15and by him not understanding her.
42:17So those are divisive terms.
42:20As a union, we have to pretend to have won this.
42:22And she stated that it was impossible.
42:23Like, he does not understand me, then he cannot.
42:25And I have to go to therapy to figure myself out
42:27or figure this out, right?
42:28So you're already approaching it from a hopeless divisive perspective.
42:34One-ness must be preserved.
42:36The enemy wants to destroy the union.
42:38So oneness as believers has to be intentionally cared for and preserved.
42:43So practically speaking, right?
42:44Cause we're not saying that you and I are the same person.
42:47Like you and I, we are extremely different in many areas.
42:50I came with different things that you came into the marriage with.
42:53But we embrace first of all, God's roles for husbands and wives, right?
42:56within our marriage.
42:58And you also understand, and I understand, vice versa,
43:01that what you bring to the table is God ordained.
43:06And what I bring to the table is God ordained.
43:09So when you have an area that you need help with,
43:13me as the helper, I bring that help, you don't reject it.
43:16Why?
43:17Because you value, you understand, man,
43:20this is what God intended the entire time.
43:22So I don't lose myself.
43:23I'm not, I don't abandon who I am.
43:26I bring what I am to you to serve God in my role and to accomplish the mission God called
43:33us to.
43:34Likewise, I need you.
43:35I need you as my covering my husband and my leader.
43:38I need that.
43:39I desire that because God has transformed my mind.
43:42But before you are transforming the mind, we start, we keep thinking like we just come together
43:46as a partnership, as if it's just a contract on paper and it becomes conditional and that
43:52is what the enemy wants.
43:54I can't help but think and obviously I'm a man, I'm a husband.
43:58And I know I believe today, you know, Wardell, Stephen Curry, the third, that's the real name.
44:05You know, it said, you know, things in the public attempting to cover for his wife.
44:09Oh, yes.
44:10But as a man, these, I don't think women understand sometimes, not all women.
44:20I don't think women understand just how powerful their impact is on their husband.
44:29Yeah.
44:30Like I've told you that your opinion is only opinion of a human being in the world that I
44:35care about in terms of having the type of I care.
44:38I'm not callous and cold toward other people, but you are my part.
44:43You are the most important physical flesh and blood person in the world to me.
44:47So if you say things publicly that is detrimental to me in my union, it hits in a way that
44:57it doesn't matter how many critics would have to say, you know, right-wing watch can
45:01post thing about me, post this about me, you know, political can write these stories, man,
45:05I don't care what they say, but if my wife has this perception of me, it's going to hit
45:09me differently.
45:10And I cannot help but to consider that I may not hope the Lord opens their eyes.
45:20But those kind of comments consistently, this is now the multiple times she's saying these
45:23things in public about her husband.
45:25I hope they're okay.
45:28And I pray they would have got the influences around them.
45:30But what we've seen publicly in these areas, it doesn't seem to be.
45:34And I want to say for for sisters, especially those who are married who may be experiencing
45:40difficulties within their marriage with all of the wisdom that I can muster an urgency
45:51in love and care, please don't despair
45:53to your husband's publicly.
45:54Yeah, I think what we need to understand is why-
45:56Let me say this, go ahead.
45:57Husbands, please don't despair to your wives publicly.
45:59Because the same thing happens in reverse.
46:01If I would mean you, it would resonate
46:04at a whole different level
46:05than if somebody else had something negative about you.
46:07Yeah, just simply and quickly.
46:08The reality is that when we do that,
46:11when we expose our husbands in that manner,
46:12and again, we can, you and I can disagree,
46:15and there can be something that you've said wrong
46:16or that I need to talk to you in private about,
46:19but it's gonna be in private.
46:20because we have to protect our unity.
46:22And the enemy is looking for whatever entry
46:25to commit a divide us.
46:26So that's why we do it in private,
46:27if there is something that we need to discuss.
46:29But the exposure in that,
46:31what did you call it, despairing?
46:34What did you call it?
46:35Disparaging.
46:36Yeah, disparaging in public is extremely detrimental
46:39because we don't realize as wives,
46:41like you explained that, you know,
46:42the most important, like my opinion,
46:43it matters to you most,
46:45is because God made us to be helpers.
46:48So we shore up, we help,
46:50we come in and give what is lacking, if you will,
46:54for lack of a term there.
46:57But we do it in a way that is edifying and uplifting.
47:00And so if we do it in a way in the name of helping,
47:03which sometimes it's not even helping,
47:04but in the name of like addressing or correcting
47:07or like addressing an error or whatever,
47:08that we do it in a detrimental belittling manner,
47:12what we are doing is we are eroding at your manhood,
47:15at your manhood.
47:16So our influence on husbands is extremely important.
47:20It's very easy for us in the flesh to be little in them
47:25and complain about our husbands and whatever they're not doing.
47:29But honestly, what we're doing is we are literally damaging
47:31our own futures and our own marriages,
47:33and that is extremely detrimental.
47:35And I wanna say to the young men who are listening to me,
47:37guys, cause I've had conversations,
47:40don't think Aisha Curry is a standard.
47:41There are godly women who understand
47:43that what she did is not good,
47:45and who will not repeat the same things.
47:48And that's another reason why I wanted to have this conversation,
47:50because I've heard guys say,
47:52say, man, look, man, look, you got Steph, this man,
47:54he's making all of the money, from what we know,
47:57he treats her well.
47:59He'll support anything that she's doing,
48:01and even a man like him can't avoid
48:04having his wife go out in public and trashing him.
48:07Man, why do I think I just get anything better?
48:08Listen, fellas, reject that, reject that, guys,
48:11because there are godly women who would love
48:13to have a godly man to serve as their covering, to serve as the leader of their family and
48:19to build a family and generationally invest in the eternal kingdom of God who do not view
48:25children as a burden or as an impediment to my self actualization goals. There are women
48:31in this world who do not share that ideology. She is exhibit A and I'm gonna be quite after
48:36this of the overwhelming injection of feminist ideology into society that is perpetually narcissistic
48:47and that is contrived for the express purposes of a lack of contentment.
48:51Yeah, it's emasculating, right? It's emasculating men. And so we complain as women, we complain about
48:58men are not doing this, they don't understand, they can't relate, they can't do this, they're not
49:01doing this. But at the same time that we're complaining about that, those of us that are married,
49:06that are ignorantly doing this maybe or even sometimes willingly in an evil fashion doing this,
49:11we are literally emasculating our husbands in front of everyone. You don't do. You don't know. You don't
49:17understand. You are doing this. And then the enemy comes and takes that and makes a party out of that.
49:22And so it's very emasculating and it's very unfortunate. I really agree for him too.
49:27Like you said, I really hope they work on it and don't end up where this is heading
49:32because these types of perspectives are heading in that direction. It's really sad.
49:39One of the greatest anti-Christ dispositions of modern society is the narcissistic, self-centered
49:49disposition. The scripture says, there's no greater love than this than a man will lay down his life.
49:58That it appears that she is unaware of the glorious beauty of selflessness and an investment in
50:05on oneness in marriage.
50:06And I, man, I hope that there is a changing of course,
50:11I hope that they mature to the point to where,
50:14and I mean that.
50:14I don't mean this as a condescending remark,
50:16mature to the point where they recognize that,
50:18you know what, whatever issues we may have,
50:20let's deal with that privately.
50:22You're not going to invite me.
50:23There's no amount of money you can pay me
50:25to come into some public venue and to trash my husband.
50:29There's no amount of money you can pay me
50:31to come into some public venue and say things relatively,
50:34or remotely negative or trash my wife.
50:37This we need to rediscover a biblical understanding of marriage.
50:43When you and I joined in holy matrimony,
50:46that was the end of Abe as an individual.
50:48You know I set my relatives down
50:51at our rehearsal dinner the day before our marriage
50:53and explained to them,
50:55from this day forward, Maria is my primary natural priority.
50:58It's not because I don't love you guys anymore.
51:00I have a different position about you.
51:02I just have a transcendent commitment,
51:04and her name is Maria.
51:06Yeah, likewise.
51:07Likewise.
51:08Yeah, it's just the same thing.
51:09Right?
51:10Selfishness destroys marriages.
51:12So when I think about me separate from you,
51:14it will destroy us.
51:15So we are one and we have to protect that.
51:18Amen.
51:19And they have children.
51:20Yes.
51:22Children.
51:23Yeah, pray for them.
51:26Lord, we need you so desperately in our society.
51:29In every sector, there's only way
51:31we can have a great nation is if we return
51:34to the Lord in fullness.

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